Here is the text we could read:
FL-313-INFO Child Custody Information Sheet—Recommending Counseling
What if there is domestic violence or a
protective order?
If there is domestic violence or a protective order,
talk with an attorney, counselor, or child custody
recommending counselor before making a
parenting plan.
For domestic violence help, call the National
Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233
(TDD:1-800-787-3224) or call 211 if available in
your area.
What if we don’t have a parenting plan?
If you can’t reach an agreement, the court will refer
you to family court services (FCS) for child custody
mediation also called “child custody recommending
counseling.” At the appointment, you will meet with
an FCS professional also called a “child custody
recommending counselor.” He or she will help you
and the other parent reach an agreement about a
parenting plan.
What is child custody recommending
counseling with family court services?
Family court services (FCS) provides child custody
recommending counseling (sometimes referred to as
child custody mediation) to help parents resolve
disagreements about the care of their child. The child
custody recommending counselor will meet with you
and the other parent to try to help you both make a
parenting plan. There may be an orientation provided
that offers additional information about the process.
If you are unable to reach an agreement after meeting
with family court services, the child custody
recommending counselor will make a written
recommendation to the court about a parenting plan.
You and the other parent and the attorneys (if any)
will get a copy of the recommendation before the
court hearing.
If you are concerned about meeting with the other
parent, or there is a domestic violence issue or a
protective order involving the other parent, you may
Parents who come to court about child custody
and parenting time (visitation) face decisions
about parenting plans for their children. This
information sheet provides general information
about child custody and parenting time matters,
how to get help resolving a custody dispute or
making a parenting plan, where to find an
attorney, and where to find other resources.
What is a parenting plan?
A parenting plan describes how the parents will
divide their responsibilities for taking care of their
child.
The plan may include a general or specific
schedule of days, times, weekends, holidays,
vacations, transportation, pick-up/drop-off, limits
on travel, counseling, and treatment services, and
other details.
• Legal custody: how parents make major
decisions about the child’s health, education,
and welfare;
• Physical custody: where the child lives; and
• Parenting time, time-share, or visitation:
when the child spends time with each parent.
What are legal and physical custody?
A parenting plan usually includes:
Legal custody and physical custody may
each be specified as joint (both parents have
certain responsibilities) or sole (one parent has
the responsibility alone).
Can we make our own parenting plan?
Yes. You have a right to make a parenting plan
agreement on your own. This agreement may be
called a stipulation, time-share plan, or parenting
plan.
If both parents can agree on a parenting plan, the
judge will probably approve it. The agreement
becomes a court order after it is signed by both
parents and the judge, and filed with the court.
Judicial Council of California, www.courts.ca.gov
New January 1, 2012, Optional Form
Child Custody Information Sheet—
Recommending Counseling
FL-313-INFO, Page 1 of 2
FL-313-INFO
Child Custody Information Sheet—Recommending Counseling
ask to meet alone with the child custody
recommending counselor without the other parent.
You may also request to have a support person with
you. The support person may not speak for you.
Do we have to agree to a parenting plan
when we meet?
No. You do not have to come to an agreement. When
the parents can’t agree, the judge will decide. For
legal advice, contact an attorney. For other
information, ask the self-help center or family court
services about how the process works in your court.
Are there other ways to resolve our dispute?
Yes. You may try other alternative dispute
resolution (ADR) options, including:
1. Meet and Confer: Parents and their attorneys (if
any) may meet at any time and as often as necessary to
work out a parenting plan without a court hearing. If
there is a protective order limiting the contact between
the parents, then the “meet and confer” can be through
attorneys or a mediator in separate sessions.
2. Settlement Conference: In some courts, parents
may meet with a judge, neutral evaluators, or family
law attorneys not involved in the case to discuss
settlement. Check with the local court to find out if this
is an option. If there is a protective order, the settlement
discussion can be through attorneys or a mediator in
separate sessions.
3. Private Mediation: Parents may hire a private
mediator to help them resolve their dispute.
4. Collaborative Law Process: Each parent hires a
lawyer and agrees to resolve the dispute without going
to court. The parents may also hire other experts.
Court Hearing
When the parents cannot agree to a parenting plan
on their own, in child custody recommending
counseling, or in any other ADR process, the judge
will decide.
If there is domestic violence or a protective order, a
parent may be able to bring a support person with
him or her to the court hearing, but the support
person may not speak for that person.
Where can I get help?
This information sheet gives only basic information
on the child custody process and is not legal advice.
If you want legal advice, ask an attorney for
assistance. For other information, you may want to:
1. Contact family court services.
2. Contact the family law facilitator or self-help
center for information, local rules and court forms,
and referrals to local legal services providers.
3. Find an attorney through your local bar
association, the State Bar of California at
http://calbar.ca.gov, or the Lawyer Referral Service
at 1-866-442-2529.
4. Hire a private mediator for help with your
parenting agreement. A mediator may be an attorney
or counselor. Contact your local bar association,
court ADR program, or family court services for a
referral to local resources.
5. Find information on the Online Self-Help Center
website at www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp.
6. For free and low-cost legal help (if you qualify),
go to www.lawhelpcalifornia.org.
7. Find information at your local law library or ask
at your public library.
8. Ask for a court hearing and let the judge decide
what is best for your child.
Requests for Accommodations
Assistive listening systems, computer-assisted real-time captioning, or sign language interpreter services are available if
you ask at least five days before the proceeding. Contact the clerk's office or go to www.courts.ca.gov/forms for
Request for Accommodations by Persons with Disabilities and Response (form MC-410). (Civil Code, § 54.8.)
New January 1, 2012
FL-313-INFO, Page 2 of 2
Child Custody Information Sheet—
Recommending Counseling
